BDSM & Kink

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Tina and BDSM

BDSM means: Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism and Masochism. It can also refer to other forms of kink and fetish play. BDSM is about consciously playing with these elements sexually. In BDSM play, a sober mind is valuable, as the point is to play with these elements consciously. This is difficult or impossible to do when high.

BDSM can be riskier than other kinds of sex, because it’s about exploring and pushing physical, psychological and emotional limits. It entails sex that is at the edge of safety. It is important when playing with BDSM, to play with knowledgeable and experienced players to minimize risks.

Pain in BDSM also helps guide play away from something that can cause real harm. It is used to help register when a limit has been reached, and that we’ve gone far enough. BDSM is about distinguishing between such pain, and the pain that is pleasurable. Tina can compromise the pain signal.

Fistinng, for example, is a form of BDSM play and can be pleasurable. If not done incorrectly, it can damage to the intestines and rectum. Play involving choking, if done incorrectly can lead to suffocation and death. These things have happened.

Tina can make BDSM play more dangerous. Tina lessons the sensation of physical pain and discomfort. But such discomfort is an important measure in BDSM, a time when a limit has been reached and it’s time to not push. Tina sex involving BDSM has, for example, lead to guys getting rectal prolapses and hernias. It is safer to separate BDSM play from Tina sex.

If you chose to use Tina during BDSM play, here are strategies to reduce risks:

Establish a Baseline

Establish a baseline with a new partner or in new roles or scenes, to reduce the likelihood either bottom or top partner will go beyond established limits when high.

Bottoming in BDSM, is about challenging yourself to take more, to push past established limits, which, if done sober, gives you a baseline. Topping in BDSM, is very much about controlling the pleasure of your bottom partner, and knowing that it was you, not a drug, that took your partners to the heights of ecstasy.

  • Check in with each other more often than you would during sober play
  • Take more frequent breaks
  • Increase your ability to see what you’re doing, bump up the lights
  • Review or relieve bondage and restraints more frequently
  • Inspect for pinking, bleeding, cuts and bruises
  • Hydrate and snack
  • Learn about BDSM risks, and risk prevention techniques
  • Consider less risky BDSM play when high on Tina, like hand bondage, and keep more risky play, like asphyxiation for when you are sober
  • Practice and be skillful with risky BDSM techniques when you are sober before trying when high