What can we expect and what can
we do about it?
Developing a new sexual life
Better sex without Tina
For many of us, sex with Tina was the most amazing sex we’ve
ever had; the ultimate in piggyness, freedom, and acceptance.
It may also have left us unfulfilled, lacking in integrity
and full of shame. We may also be trying to deal with the
physical and psychological results of our use like weight
loss, STIs, HIV or Hepatitis C, heart disease, depression,
memory impairment and other neurological damage. The balance
for us has shifted. The thrill is outweighed by the negatives.
We want to reduce or eliminate our use of Tina but we’re
afraid to, may not believe that we can, and don’t know
how to make the transition to sex without Tina.
You’re not alone. Many users deal with similar issues.
Despite the challenges, guys do make the adjustments and are
able to have sex without Tina. It takes a lot of perseverance
and support but other guys like us make this choice every
day; you can too. Sex without Tina will be different. That
is part of what we want after all! Finally, and this may be
just an idea that we hold onto but can’t imagine yet
for ourselves, sex can be better than ever without Tina.
This section is about making the transition to sex without
Tina. Our need for sex and intimacy can be one of the biggest
challenges for us when dealing with a decision to reduce or
end our Tina use. What can we expect and how can we improve
our odds of success? What has worked for other guys and what
might we learn and try from their experience? For many of
us, what has worked for others helps guide and inspire us
in the pursuit of our own goals.
even reading and thinking about the subject of sex and Tina
can be a trigger, please remember to use the SUPPORT
section of this site which includes tools
for coping with cravings and stress management among other